How to Reclaim Your Identity as a Mom Tips for Self Rediscovery

Let’s be real—somewhere between “Where’s my sock, Mama?” or “I want dinosaur nuggets, not smileys!”, you probably lost a little piece of you. That you who put on lipstick just because you could, that you who read books that actually contained plots (not lift-the-flap), and that you who had a plan that did not centre on naps.

But here is the thing, though. Whether you're in the thick of diaper duty or browsing the best baby products in India, this guide is your reminder: you matter, too. Reaching the full sense of yourself is not only possible, but necessary to insure your own well-being.




Here’s how to find her back:

1.      Begin with YOU not your to-do

Ask yourself What do I need today before the lunchboxes and laundry. Perhaps it is five minutes of silence. Perhaps it is non-reheated coffee. Start small. It is not like the world will come to an end when you go out of breath.

 

2.      Put yourself on the calendar

You schedule playdates, doctor visits, even pencil sharpening for your toddler—but what about your dance class? That DIY craft you once loved? Start scheduling you-time like it's the hottest playdate in town.

Pro tip: sneak in some self-love while shopping at your favourite premium baby store—maybe a little something for you and the baby. Win-win!

 

3.      Say ‘No’ with a smile

The authorization to say no to what does not serve you. No to another WhatsApp group. No to bake sales if your oven’s off-duty. Protect your time like your kid guards their last cookie.

 

4.      Follow your joy crumbs

Enjoyed painting at college? Miss singing in the shower with no one watching? The little sparks? Follow them. They bring you to the section of you that is still giggling, is still glowing.

 

5.      Join your tribe

Find those moms who will laugh at you saying you have hidden in the bathroom just to scroll Instagram. In real life or on the internet, a mom-squad that has your back will tell you that you are not alone in this attempt to adult on 4 hours of sleep.

 

6.      Cheer on the mini wins

Went out on a solo walk? Wore mascara? You open the laptop, not only to make grocery lists? Yay, you! It is these little wins when you are returning to yourself.

 


Motherhood can make you, but it does not need to take you away. Even as you shop for newborn baby essentials or prepare yet another bedtime snack, you’re still bold, beautiful, and uniquely you So go ahead, reclaim your sparkle. The world (and your kids) will be grateful to see that.

 

 

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